"Am I in love?" Most of the young people, especially when in their teens, ask themselves this question sometime. They know it feels good. They want to lead a happy life, and they think and are not so wrong that a good choice of a marriage partner makes a vital difference. It does.
But even though there is perhaps more talk of love today than in the past, yet not everyone knows what love is. They think it is a feeling. Thank heavens it is not merely that. You could not build a lifelong marriage on feelings as they flicker too much. But what happen yesterday change my mindset toward love.
But even though there is perhaps more talk of love today than in the past, yet not everyone knows what love is. They think it is a feeling. Thank heavens it is not merely that. You could not build a lifelong marriage on feelings as they flicker too much. But what happen yesterday change my mindset toward love.
Yesterday I chat with a couple during a midnight coffee session and listen to them sharing with me about their love and personal life. I can feel the love from the women toward her husband, the unconditional care and support, despite her husband is still struggling with his career at this moment. She told me that she is willing to wait and pray daily that her husband can pull through this difficult period.
I can also sense the husband really love and care for her wife as well. He do not want her to worry so much, he want to give as much support to his wife, he change because he want both their parents to have a better life. He rather suffer alone in silence rather than letting her wife feel the stress at home and at work. Even through at time he is tired after a long day work, he will still pick up her wife from her work.
The love, between them, really touches my heart and I want to give them a helping hand during this difficult period. The wife was in doubt initially why I want to give them the helping hand, but after spending time chatting and understanding over the coffee session, she understand my point and where I come from. The husband says he feel bad that I have been giving him opportunity yet he is not contributing much in the assignment, and he promise to work hard to give his wife a better life.
This couple is pure and kind in heart, standing beside each other to give support to one another for the past few years. Yesterday was my first session with them, they let me understand more about love, about supporting one another, and I wishing them forever happy and have a blissful lasting relationship.
I hope to see more successful people around me, hope to see more smiling faces, hope to see everyone have a good year ahead. Some of you might not understand me, as I can be emotional at time but I can be very decisive as well, and no matter what, I m not a person that a normal person can handle, especially feeling play a part in my life.
The year of Monkey is coming, hereby wishing everyone a Happy Chinese New Year. Lastly, I hope to see Elson Soh, Daniel Chin, Hayden Chen and Jacky Goh doing better than last year, be more successful this year and hope to see you guys settled down with your loved ones this year. This year, I hope to find another successor to impart my knowledge and a person who understand me at the same time, hopefully someone that is patience and hardworking.