Action speak louder than words

A person who cant even manage his family, how can he manage a company? A person who cant manage his company, how can we be sure that he can manage a political party? A person who cant manage and command his own political party and lead his team, how can we vote him into the parliament and speak for the residents and handle nation issues?

Recently, met a couple of independent opposition members, listening to their plans and presentation for the upcoming election, I was kind of surprise by their theory and philosophy, and when I look at what they had done or going to do, I'm even surprise too.

They told me they want to help the Singaporeans, especially the low-income families, the small medium enterprises, improve the education for children, resolve the transport issues, coming up with a better system for HDB to ensure the housing costing is affordable etc. Very impressive right?

But after looking at what they had done for past two years or so, I'm wondering what will happen to Singapore if they are "lucky" to become our MP, and I'm starting to worry for our nation, our current issues and many things.

Not all opposition members are bad or lousy, but seem that there are too many of them having so much personal issues, family issues and even thinking how they can raise funds to participate in upcoming election. This really made me wonder if they cant even afford the deposit, how are they going to manage our nation funding in future? 

On the other note, many of them keep saying that they want to help and serve the residents and Singaporeans, but it seem that they only know how to do walkabouts, shaking hands with the residents, selling party newspapers, and if the resident really ask them for assistance, will they be able to help? Or just listen and forget? 

I sincerely urge and hope that if you are serious in becoming a politician, do have a heart for the Singaporeans and think what you can do for them now, or what you can do for them in near future, and not wait until the election, then start barking and talking bad about our government. 

Political and politician is not about walking around greeting people, but to serve and ensure our resident's welfare and security, and after that think of ways to improve our nation's system and other matters. 

I understand that the salary for a MP is so much higher than a normal working executive, and please do not become a MP just because of the good pay, but please do it with a heart for Singapore and the people. Bear in mind, talk is cheap and action speak louder than words.

This blog post is just my feeling, my concern and worry for this upcoming election, as I do not wish to see lousy opposition politician marching into the parliament, also I wish to urge all Singaporeans to look at who you are voting, as our government is also working hard to improve themselves and the current system now.

The Royal 3 皇室三少

Last week was indeed a tough week for me, everyday only get to sleep less than 3 hours as we have to rush for artistes' appearance in merchants' stores, media interviews, Bugis Junction events etc. But it is a fruitful week as I get to know many new merchants, new media and new friends.

Maybe I think too much, but I can feel the potential of The Royal 3 making their way to stardom, as Elson Soh, Daniel Chin and Hayden Chen are so close as brother, helping each other during events and take care of one another during their promotion tour. 

This round of promotion in Singapore, apart from gaining more new supporters, we also have new merchants and sponsors stepping in, giving supports to my three artistes. Thank you to Bridal Concept, Perk Beverages, Happy Salad, Australian Natural Volcanic Spring Water, Maggie Thai & Chinese Restaurant, House of Seafood, Turbo 9000, Ground Zero, Teo Heng KTV, including media like Capital 95.8 FM, JustClick.SG, Hello FM, Campus Rock, Poppy TV, for supporting Royal Entertainment and our artistes.  

To be very frank, no doubt it was a tired week, but I start missing them now! Thinking of the time eating supper with them, chatting about their advancement as artiste, bringing them around to meet sponsors, attending media interviews with them etc. 

Anyway, thank you to my artiste manager Robin Heng, my team Jacky Goh, Irene Choo, Snow Ang, Jace Koh, Joanne Tan, 阿珍, 阿林 for the hard-work and efforts, and all the fans Benjamin Leo, 倪倪, Shing Hoong, Jia Huai Ren, Jacklyn, Joycelyn, Kenneth and many more, for your assistance to promote The Royal 3 to your friends and social media. I hope to see more new fans joining us in upcoming events!

Lastly, thank you everybody who believe in me, willing to help me despite that many of my haters (example: super fan like Joyce Stella,*oops should not even mention name!) continue to hurt me whether through online or behind my back, but I just felt that I m very lucky to be blessed with so much loves from each of you and many new supporters. Before I end my blog post today, remember to support my three artistes' Facebook pages and do you miss them now?

Elson Soh 蘇奕銓 - https://www.facebook.com/elsonsohyq

Daniel Chin 陳逸鳴 - https://www.facebook.com/danielchinym

Hayden Chen 陳肇佑 - https://www.facebook.com/haydenchenzy

Imperfect person who is learning to do perfect things

Why do people like to wait for things to happen? Because they are scare or because they are lazy? To me, whether you are scare or you are lazy, this is just another reason for you to escape from the reality. 

We must face whatever is in front for us, but well it is so easy to say, and many times it is so hard to execute too. For me, I look at people that I m dealing with, based on relationship and feeling, which is quite terrible for me to handle, as I can be very kind to do everything FREE for you, but I can be bastard to charge you expensive sum for my marketing services. This really must depend on my mood and whether how much I think of you. 

Looking back at the people that I do FREE things for, in fact not many of them will appreciate you, especially when something bad happen, especially when things turn sour, people just tend to forget what are the good thing you had done for them. This is what happen to me always, and until today I still cant change my habit in helping people as much as I can. 

Life is about what you believe and how you going to use it. There is no right and wrong, but you can choose who you want to talk to, who you want to love and who you want to be friend with. Nobody is perfect in this world and I m the imperfect person who is learning to do perfect things.

Love All, Trust Few, Hurt None

Recently, one friend share with me this statement which I personally felt that this is so meaningful, "Love All, Trust Few, Hurt None". By the way, can we really learn to love everybody, and only have a few trusted friends? Can we hurt none in our life? Very confusing right? 

Love All - I m doing my best to love as many people as I can, trying my best to cheer up as many people as I can, but end of the day, how many people will return to me when I need help or when I m down? I believe this happen to many of you out there too, but remember life still have to move on, regardless good or bad. 

Trust Few - Yes, I truly believe this now, or I would say after many falls and betrayers that I met in my life, I learn to trust only a few of them in life. My dream is to help people who I trust, and of course people who believe in me, trust me and willing to give me a chance.

Hurt None - I might hurt many people in the past due to my lack of experience in business, short temper during conversation, very straightforward in my speech and many more. But at least along the way, I learn and change for the better, from painful experiences and sufferings that my haters given me. Well, you might say I deserve it, yes you are right! Because I will also say the same things too! 

In life, especially when life is short, learn to live to the fullest, learn to forgive and forget which I m also learning now. I know it is hard to please everybody, especially not everybody is that kind enough to forgive and forget, not everybody can move forward and give you a chance, but remember this is your life, you only have yourself to answer, your family to answer, your business partner to answer, and your best buddy to answer. Move on, things will change for the better if you keep moving, despite that your haters might haunt you at any time, but at the same time, you will gain more friends who believe in you and willing to give you a chance.

Be Myself and Be Yourself

Learn to say "NO" without explaining yourself. I simply like this statement that I saw online, as in today world, no matter what you do, or how good you do, as long as you ever fail somebody before or you ever fail in business and become in debt, many people out there will "sentence" you to death. There are haters that might go to the extend of "making sure" you will never make a comeback. 

This is very normal in life actually as we cant please everybody. Just like what I put as my blog title: "William Soh - Be Myself and Be Yourself", to constantly remind myself that I have a dream, I have a family, I have friends and I have working partners to take care of. There is no point for me to bother so much about people who do not believe in me, despite that I m a bankruptcy, I fail in business, I fail somebody before.... and many more.

Ask myself why I should bother about people and haters that do not even want to give me a chance to change? Why should I live for them, or even beg them for forgiveness openly in my Facebook, whereby they don't even want to forgive whatever I may done wrong in the past, and to the extend causing hurts and damages to my family and my friends around me. 

Ask yourself why till date I haven't take any action to those that keep hurting me, for a reason or no reason, after so many years, you still hate me like FUCK, why? Just because you are a fucker? Just because I do not love you, or I do not know how to carry your balls? Just because I m too straightforward? Just don't be a FUCKER in my life, and get a life please.

Well, this post is dedicated to peoples who hate me, peoples who love me, peoples who doesn't even know me but backstabbing me just because you cant win me in whatever I m doing now. Go hate me if you want, as my life do not need to have people and friend like you. I also have the freedom to select my own people and friends in life, and you do not need to be in my life as it take up a extra space. 

I wish to thank all my haters and peoples who until today, still hate me and refuse to forgive me, you build my success and I will show you how I can lead a better life and help people to lead a better life, especially those that suffer just like me. I want to change people's lives starting from this October 2015 onward.