Why do people like to wait for things to happen? Because they are scare or because they are lazy? To me, whether you are scare or you are lazy, this is just another reason for you to escape from the reality.
We must face whatever is in front for us, but well it is so easy to say, and many times it is so hard to execute too. For me, I look at people that I m dealing with, based on relationship and feeling, which is quite terrible for me to handle, as I can be very kind to do everything FREE for you, but I can be bastard to charge you expensive sum for my marketing services. This really must depend on my mood and whether how much I think of you.
Looking back at the people that I do FREE things for, in fact not many of them will appreciate you, especially when something bad happen, especially when things turn sour, people just tend to forget what are the good thing you had done for them. This is what happen to me always, and until today I still cant change my habit in helping people as much as I can.
Life is about what you believe and how you going to use it. There is no right and wrong, but you can choose who you want to talk to, who you want to love and who you want to be friend with. Nobody is perfect in this world and I m the imperfect person who is learning to do perfect things.